Kofi Ahovi

  Nollywood actor and media personality Chinedu Ani Emmanuel, popularly known as Nedu has cautioned women to be wary of suitors who propose a no-sex-before marriage relationship. Nedu stated in the recent edition of his podcast  "The Honest Bunch" on Monday May 15, 2023 that it was unusual for men to enter into sexual relationships with the opposite sex and have such a mantra in today's society. Such men, according to the on-air personality, might be hiding something questionable about their aptitude sexually, which could seriously harm a long-term relationship. He explained that the basis of his argument was the fact that several women had confided in him about the appalling sexual performances of their husbands, which they had been ignorant of prior to their wedding ceremony. He said, “Your guy is telling you no sex before marriage, no sex before marriage, find out if he likes it from the other side. One woman don talk for my radio show say, ‘Oga Nedu, I dey cheat on m...

BY Ghanaian culture and tradition, all adults are expected to marry. This may explain a study that suggests that by age 38 only one per cent of Ghanaian women may never have married at least once in their lives. They get into relationships and keep breaking up. There are also those who remarry several times and blame bad luck or evil forces for their predicament. Today, it is common for many Ghanaian women to go to fake pastors for deliverance because they are married in the spirit and find it hard to marry in the physical realm. What most don’t appreciate is that it is impossible to have a relationship or marriage without problems. What you do in times of difficulties is what determines the health of your marriage; some live in lifeless marriages, some use their conflicts as agents to nurture their marriage but the majority simply give up. It is natural that after the break up many play the blame game and exonerate themselves especially if they see themselves as good. Some believe des...